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Friday, December 11, 2009

 

Holiday Stress Solutions

"If you are too busy to be happy.... you are too busy" Robert Holden

The Holidays, meant to be a time of joy and celebration, often land up causing anxiety and stress. Simple strategies that you can employ to reconnect to yourself and the true spirit of the Holidays include:

  • Do Nothing set aside 10 -15 minutes a day to simply relax and be with yourself. Listen to your favorite music and set aside your "busy mind" as you disengage from your mind chatter.
  • Set aside the Superhero Cape try to set realistic expectations about what you can and can not do. Instead of trying to please everyone, start with pleasing yourself and you will be amazed at how much more energy and patience you will have for others.
  • Time is the real gift Think back to when you were a child and what memories stand out for you the most. Chances are, the most memorable moments are quality times spent with family rather than any gift you received. The most valuable gift we can give our children is the gift of our time and attention.
  • Simplify, simplify, simplify order gifts online or give gift certificates to hard-to-buy for people.
  • Have fun! Make a conscious effort to do something fun every day, as joy is the natural antidote to stress. Dance, laugh and move .... even if it is in your living room alone at home. Exercise and movement are natural stress busters and release our innate joy.
Wishing you all the best for a Happy Holiday season and a great New Year!


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Thursday, June 11, 2009

 

You Might as well Laugh......

 Today I went to the dentist to get a crown fitted for my molar. I was innocently sitting, mouth wide open,when all of a sudden I felt something in my throat. I thought it was saliva, and was about to swallow, when my dentist sounded the alarm. Instinctively, I coughed, and the crown, which I was about to swallow, propelled out of my mouth at lightening speed. The dentist paled at the prospect of what could have happened, but it looked so ridiculous as it hurled out my mouth that .... I HAD TO LAUGH! I laughed so hard, partly out of relief, partly out of the humor of it. The fact that I could laugh, diffused a potentially stressful situation for us both. Thanks to the laughter practice, I am able to gain perspective in a situation. After all, if I will be able to laugh about it in a year's time, then I may as well laugh about it now. The dentist was relieved and wanted to hug me for my understanding. I was not the least bit upset. Rather, I am grateful that I was able to avert a potentially problematic situation. Laughter is a great tool for stress relief and helps me glide through my day with joy instead of oy!

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